I’ve heard the objections before. Whenever I’m beginning a program and people talk to me about registering, I hear objections: I don’t have the time, I don’t have the money, I’m nervous about a group setting…
Session 1 of my Soul Sisterhood Circle online gathering began on September 12. There are still a few spots available, and I’m guessing that’s because even though you were interested, you found yourself thinking of the objections (the second online virtual gathering is on October 10th – email me here for more information!).
Objection 1: I’m too busy!
So you say you don’t have time to break free from limiting beliefs?
I promise you, you DO have the time. It is simply that most women don’t allow themselves to take time for self-care.
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Even if you feel the guilt rising, talk to it! Tell the guilt that it’s all ok, you have the time for everything you need to do, and that includes self-care. Hey, Guilt – I got this!
Objection 2: I shouldn’t spend the money!
So you say you don’t want to invest in breaking free from the limiting beliefs that are holding you back from a happy, fulfilled life?
This isn’t money spent frivolously – this is an investment in your well-being!
Take some time to truly see how you are spending the money you have. Are you spending on everyone else and forgetting you? That wouldn’t be surprising – it’s another way women over 40 give and give of themselves to others, but forget about themselves.
It’s time to give yourself a present, too. A present that will last longer than a new pair of shoes, a new haircut, or even a new TV. This gift of breaking free will last a lifetime!
Objection 3: I don’t want a group judging me!
So you say you can’t get support from a group because you worry people will judge you, they’ll see you aren’t perfect, they’ll see your flaws?
It can seem scary at first to share in a group, but it is well-known that group support has real power in helping people heal. Some evidence even suggests it may enhance immune function.
It helps to know that others are facing the same type of situations and challenges that you are facing. Especially in women over 40, our lives, physical changes, and experiences are often more alike than they are different. Women have been gathering in circle for thousands of years to support and share. Trust in your sisters – join the circle!
YES, it is a 3 month commitment, meeting twice a month.
YES, it’s a financial investment.
YES, you will need to open up and be vulnerable.
BUT IMAGINE 3 MONTHS FROM NOW…
You will:
- Feel true to yourself
- Deal with life stressors with ease
- Be free of your limiting beliefs
- Feel empowered and assertive, expressive and feminine
- Feel beautiful no matter what
- Feel alive without any validation from others!
I know the investment of your time, money, and trust will be worth how you will feel. If you’d like to talk about it, I’d love to hear from you: kohava@emergingvibrantwoman.com.
Be courageous, be brilliant, be a fearless warrior, and become an emerging, vibrant woman.
Blissful love,
Kohava